But above all, to acquire the virtue of chastity prayer
is necessary: it is necessary to pray, and to pray continually.
It has already been said that chastity can neither be acquired
nor preserved unless God grant His aid to preserve it; but this
aid He gives only to those who ask it.
We should then, says St. Cyprian, instantly resist the first
carnal solicitations with which the devil assails us,
and not permit the serpent, that is, the temptation, to
grow strong. St. Jerome gives this same advice: "You must
not permit bad thoughts to grow in your mind; no, kill
the enemy when he is small." It is easy to kill a lion
when he is small, but not when his has grown to his full
size.
Let us guard against reasoning with temptations contrary to chastity:
let us endeavor instantly to banish them. And, as the spiritual
masters teach, the best means of banishing such temptations
is not to combat them directly face to face, by making contrary
acts of the will, but to get rid of them indirectly by acts of the
love of God, or of contrition, or at least by turning
the mind to other things.
But the means in which we should place the greatest confidence is
prayer, and recommending ourselves to God. It is useful, as soon
as we perceive the first motion of impurity, to renew our purpose
to suffer death rather than consent to sin, and immediately after
to have recourse to the wounds of Jesus Christ for aid.
It is also very useful to make the sign of the cross
on the breast, and to have recourse to our angel guardian
and our holy patron. But above all, it is useful to have
recourse to Jesus Christ and the divine Mother by instantly
invoking their most holy names, and by continuing to invoke
them until the temptation is beaten down. Oh! how powerful are
the most holy names of Jesus and Mary against the attacks of
impurity!
Devotion to the holy Virgin, who is called "the Mother of fair
love, and the guardian of virginity," is a most useful devotion
for the preservation of chastity. And to recite, at rising in the
morning and going to bed at night,
three "Hail Marys," in honor
of the purity of Mary, is a devotion that has singular efficacy in
obtaining the gift of continence.